On Being LGBTQ+ in Ghana
In honor of National Coming Out Day, I want to take some time to take
a look at the experience of LGBTQ+ PCVs and Ghanaians. Many who fall
outside of the "straight" norm are often
forced to hide their identity to avoid persecution and, in some
cases, death.
But why should these
folks hide a major part of their identities? For one, being queer is
seen as going against religion, which is a major part of the Ghanaian
way of life. Ghanaians are very religious and believe that everything
in the Bible and the hadith (sayings attributed to Mohammad) is law
and should be strictly followed. Various passages in both of these
sources explicitly declare homosexual acts to be abominable, and thus
to be avoided. Thus, if one engaged in a same-sex relationship, he
would be sinning against God and carrying out the “work of the
devil.”
However, sinning
against God is often not the first argument Ghanaians make as to why
homosexuality is wrong. Most point to the importance of marrying and
raising a family as a reason against same-sex relationships.
Producing progeny is bedrock to Ghanaian culture, as it means not
only will you be cared for when you are old, but you are carrying on
your family line. Failing to produce children, even for straight
couples, is unacceptable. Such failure often draws accusations of
witchcraft (as witches cannot produce children). To be in a same-sex
relationship in which there is no way for the couple to naturally
reproduce (as most Ghanaians are not familiar with and/or do not have
access to the medical procedures available that would give such
couples the ability to produce offspring) is thus automatically unacceptable in Ghanaian culture.
Making matters worse
for queer people in Ghana are the homophobic “conspiracy theories”
that have taken root in popular culture. Many of these theories
provide health-related proof as to why being gay is unnatural.
Volunteers have recounted host country nationals’ claims that
partaking in gay sex is bad for your health because it causes “one’s
anus to become so large the poop just falls out forever.” Another
common theory is that homosexual sex causes cancer, while
heterosexual sex does not (forgetting that women undergo pap smears
to check for cervical cancer even if they strictly engage in sex with
men). Even worse: claims of “gay conspiracies to take over.” A
common claim in Wa is that Michelle Obama fomented a “takeover of
society by gay people.” What is it about Michelle Obama that makes
her a queer revolutionary? The fact that she “looks like a man”--
leading many Ghanaians to hold fast to the belief that she is
secretly “a transgender.” Calling all LGBTQ+ people to arms, she
is the one to blame for the apparent “falling apart” of American
society through its allowance of gay marriage.
So what is the
everyday experience of a queer person in Ghana? The biggest part:
hiding your identity. This is hard for many PCVs, many of whom
struggled to come out of the closet in the first place only to find
themselves back in it. When asked whether they have a significant
other, many volunteers have taken to asking a friend back home to
pose as their wife or husband so they can avoid rumors that they
“practice gayism.” In addition, all of them have to hear constant
homophobic statements that, while not directed at them (as they are
not “out” to their community), nonetheless are about them.
While they may try to stick up for “their friends” who are gay
and argue that “who is to judge another but God?”, it is easy to
feel like these conversations are useless, as they are just baby
steps in the marathon of removing homophobia in Ghanaian society.
While queer PCVs
struggle hiding in the closet in Ghana, they can rest assured that
they only need to remain so for the two or three years that they are
in service. LGBTQ+ Ghanaians, on the other hand, do not have this
privilege. Most, like PCVs, remain in the closet but suffer through
hearing the same homophobic slurs. If boys are deemed “too
feminine” or girls “too masculine,” oftentimes their family has
to protect them, keeping them inside to avoid being harassed, beaten
up, or even killed. Everyone in Ghana knows the story of two lesbian
girls in senior high school who were caught together and had to run
to avoid being killed by their community. The girls have yet to be
found. One can only hope this means they escaped, but the reality is
they could have just as easily been murdered.
To adhere to
societal expectations to marry and raise children, most end up
marrying people to whom they do not have any romantic attraction. One
gay man I met in Wa is a prime example. After meeting a lesbian PCV
visiting Wa, he pursued her hand in marriage, saying that they “just
had to do it for show, maybe have a child and then [they] can do
[their] own thing. [They would be] helping each other.” Others take
to using apps like Grindr to secretly pursue a queer relationship.
However, there have been cases of straight men trolling apps like
these with the aim of tracking down and murdering gay folks.
So where does Ghana
stack up against other developing countries? According to LGBTQ+ PCVs
across the globe, queer folks in most countries with a PC presence
(which are often labeled “developing”) are experiencing similar
levels of oppression. Some volunteers have reported locals being
distrustful of Peace Corps because of the widespread belief that they
enlist “gay spies.” A few volunteers have had to “early
terminate” (ET)-- cut their service short-- because their
communities discovered they were gay and threatened them with
violence. Some have had to ET because their community no longer
trusted them upon finding out they were queer and so could no longer
carry out projects. Similarly, volunteers have reported gay host
country nationals being rooted out of their homes by police and
jailed for their identities. Many apply for asylum in other
countries, but are often forced to help police catch other
LGBTQ+-identifying individuals before they will agree to even look at
their papers. In many of these countries, homosexuality is illegal,
and even being accused of being such ruins the lives of many
individuals, as they are ostracized from their communities, hunted
down, jailed, and sometimes killed.
Upon reading all
this, it would be easy to demonize Ghana and other developing
countries’ cultures for being so homophobic. However, it is
important to realize that gay rights in the U.S. did not get to where
it is now until very recently. For a long time, the United States
similarly jailed people for being gay, refused them the ability to
serve in the military or work for the government, and overwhelmingly
ostracized them for their identities. Even now, LGBTQ+ rights are
being attacked, and in too many places it is still common to hear
about queer folks being killed or committing suicide because of the
bullying they experience. Many, including myself, have our identities
constantly questioned as to whether or not they are “valid.” With
these realities in mind, then we can see what is happening in Ghana
and other countries as the beginning of a worldwide journey toward
equal rights for LGBTQ+ people. One does not have to look very hard
to see the beginnings of gay rights activism in these countries,
which gives queer folks everywhere the hope that their nations will
slowly begin to transition towards policies that protect their rights
and their lives.
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